Monday, December 11, 2006

wildlife

when we first lived in this house, there was a huge pile of rubbish in one corner of the garden which a family of foxes had made their home. eventually we cleared it and the foxes had to move elsewhere - next door i think it was because i still see them about - they come through our garden when it is quiet - early morning or sometimes i see them just at dusk - and sometimes i see them crossing the road if i look out the window late at night
and we have a fair number of squirrel visitors too - they run along our back fence and leap across to next door's tree - i find it endlessly amusing to watch them chase each other and to skitter up and down the trunks of trees. for the first few years we lived here there was a totally mental squirrel who used to chase his own tail. we all loved him - he was crazy!!
we had a little hedgehog too at one time - we would put cat food just outside the back door and would hear him rattling the bowl on the path when he was feeding
today i was in the library at lunch-time and read an article in a newspaper which suggested that scientists' research appears to confirm that animals can have what we would take to be 'human' emotions like 'love'. i recall that some years ago boogs and i watched a tv prog about altruism in animals so i don't find this research so surprising.
and i remember one summer evening some years ago now when i was in the kitchen and heard a strange sound outside - rather like a mewing or squeaking sound. i went out and found 2 hedgehogs - one was quite plainly unwell and the other was quite obviously distressed. the ill one was making his way slowly across the lawn and the other was creeping along beside him making these snuffly noises. they appeared to be about the same size. i have often wondered what became of them - i have not seen a hedgehog in our garden since.

Monday, December 04, 2006

over-dramatic claptrap

i buy the 'mail on sunday' because i rather like the 'you' magazine - and the tv pages are useful - although i only ever watch about an hour's worth a week - but mainly i get it because
a) we always did (!!) and
b) there isn't a b) !!
so the truth is i don't know why i get it . . .
however . . . the front page headline this week made me realise that enough really is enough!!!
this was it:
'Police arrested me at dawn and threw me in a cell' !!!!!
i read the article and according to this 'Des Smith', he was awoken at his home in London at 7.20 a.m., taken to Stoke Newington police station and 'thrown in a cell alongside violent criminals'
now my understanding of 'dawn' is 'first light' which, as anyone who has ever seen the sunrise will know, occurs a good half hour before then. sunrise in london on 13 april this year was 6.09 a.m. not really 'dawn' then!!
and having read how he was 'dragged from his bed in a dawn raid' can we honestly believe that he was 'thrown' into a cell?
and what of the 'violent criminals'? slapped him with their hankies did they?

Saturday, December 02, 2006

Little Pip

today. as promised, i shall write about pip!
which is the best news in ages!! (well since freddie was born in fact!!)
frankie is well but getting somewhat tired now - and looking forward to the end of term in just over a fortnight
she and alex have moved into a lovely little house with a south-facing garden which is just over a mile from here - they stayed with me for a short while before they moved in - which tbh was rather a strain for all of us!!
last thursday frankie went for another scan - and this time she saw pip's little face!!
pip's 'due date' is early march - although frankie so soo big now one wonders if she will be earlier than that!
we are all looking forward to pip's arrival!!
. . . and just a short note on the name . . . which won't really be pip! . . . although i do know which names have been chosen i shan't write them here!! - pip is just a sort of 'in utero' name and short for 'pipkin' - frankie's favourite from 'watership down'!!

Friday, November 24, 2006

E for exciting

I have exciting news!
Well . . . it's not 'news' at all really . . . but it IS exciting!
Frankie and Alex moved into their house last Friday
They are expecting their first baby (Pip) in March
They are getting married Christmas 2007
All this is 'old' news for family and friends - I just haven't written about it here yet - mainly because it was hard to set it down coherently!! and even now I don't really know where to start . . . so . . . instead here is:

OneWordMemeNoExceptionsandNoCheating
1. Yourself: Cross
2. Your boyfriend/girlfriend (spouse): Unique
3. Your hair: Short
4. Your mother: Demanding
5. Your Father: Patient
6. Your Favourite Item: Car
7. Your dream last night: Forgotten
8. Your Favourite drink: Coffee
9. Your Dream Car: Morgan
10. The room you are in: Library
11. Your Ex: Forgettable
12. Your fear: Rats
13. What you want to be in 10 years? Wiser
14. Who you hung out with last night? Self
15. What You're Not: Humble
16. Muffins: Blueberry
17. One of Your Wish List Items: Books
18. Time: Tide
19. The Last Thing You Did: Read
20. What You Are Wearing: Brown
21. Your Favourite Weather: Frosty
22. Your Favourite Book: Novel
23. The Last Thing You Ate: Sandwich
24. Your Life: OK
25. Your Mood: Anxious
26. Your best friend: Omnipresent
27. What are you thinking about right now? Studying
28. Your car: Blue
29. What are you doing at the moment? Thinking
30. Your summer: Stressful
31. Your relationship status: Solitary
32. What is on your TV? Nothing
33. What is the weather like? Rainy
34. When is the last time you laughed? Today
35. Who do you tag? Tag?

Back another time with updates!

Sunday, November 19, 2006

silence reigned . . .

. . . and we all got wet
it has been a fairly quiet few days . . .
friday: fran and alex moved into their house
saturday: stella, rich and the pies were in watford so i went to see them at jackie's where they were staying.
kezia could hardly wait for me to get through the door before taking me off to see the wonderful shirt-folder she had made - she made it out of an old cardboard box and it will fold all shirts and t-shirts to EXACTLY the same size - brilliant!!! stella had cut her (kezia's) hair so it is just above shoulder length - looks very cute!!
jago is still intent on raising a laugh at every opportunity - if silence falls he just makes funny frog noises to make us chuckle
clara was having a quiet day
today:
morning: zipped to shopping centre as soon as open to get belt for the dyson - was only there about 20 mins and the place was heaving by the time i came out - but i had finished and could go home - phew!!
afternoon: stella phoned to say they were all home safely in sheffield - and again in the evening when we chatted for ages - for far longer than i actually saw her while they were down - she made me laugh so much my sides ache!!

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

brain in over-drive!!

it has been a challenging few days in the brain department!!
friday: admissions policy meeting in the evening - tortuous!!
saturday: my friend berny is going to peru for 3 months in the new year to teach special needs children. in order to raise money for the charity with which she is going she held a quiz night. I had organised a team (Team Freddie) - and it comprised:
Janey and Dave
Judy and John
Cat, David and Freddie (although Freddie was asleep all evening under the table!!)
Trisha
Moi
We had an entertaining and very funny evening
. . . and . . .
HOORAH!!
we won!!!
sunday - remembrance sunday: janey, eric and i visited with o and g and took them to mass -and then drove to nether heyford for sunday lunch at the old sun. we arrived at the village green just before the wreath laying so we heard the binyon poem and also the buglers playing the last post - which made g very happy - for the last 2 years i have marched in the procession with him but he is getting a little too frail for that now - so he was glad not to miss out altogether!
monday:
work: dire straits in the cash office due to staff absence so i was drafted in to help - some quick-thinking required!! very busy!!
evening: meeting at liz and david's where we looked at the second reading from sunday mass (which had been read at o and g's church in POLISH!!! - i haven't a clue why!! - maybe Daventry has a large Polish community now??). It was jolly hard going and my little grey cells were working over-time!! very pleasant group of people though and nice informal chat afterwards
today: philip called just as i arrived home so had a cup of tea with him and then frankie and i took some stuff to the house (i think she is actually moving in there tomorrow - yay!! - calm returns to the wassell house!!)
philosophy: and as if my brain hasn't been working hard enough . . . i have been wrestling with a philosphy essay to boot!!

Thursday, November 09, 2006

pies and cakes

yesterday was the best day i have had in yonks:
collected stella and the pies and had quick coffee at jackie's
back here around 11 and made my christmas caakes - with stella's kezia's and jago's help (clara 'helped' by crawling around the kitchen floor investigating tully's dinner and pulling bottles out of the winerack!!). since kezia has a nut allergy i made the mixture without almonds, then piled it into 2 tins - one a little smaller than my usual one and the other a tiny loaf tin which is especially for k and j. i shall marzipan and ice the bigger one but only ice the little one. kezia was terribly excited to see her own special cake when it was baked. they both had a stir and made a wish
after lunch, k and j had a little nap while s and i had coffee and washed up and clara dozed a bit
we had a little time to play when the pies woke up and before i took them all over to cat and david's
had a coffee there and measured clara and freddie together - believe it or not they are EXACTLY the same length!! - clara is 8 months old today and freddie will be 4 months the week after next!
book group in the evening at jan's - 'lighthousekeeping' by jeanette winterson - excellent book which i can thoroughly recommend

Sunday, November 05, 2006

quicksticks!!!

. . . because i really pushed for time tonight!!
. . . but soo much has been happening!!
thursday: frankie sent me text to say its ofsted for them on wednesday - just one day but enough to start a major panic by the sounds of it!!
friday: stella rich and the pies arrived in the evening - nipped round briefly - they are all well
saturday: frankie and alex got keys for their house so fran and i went round for start of cleaning process - stella and c visited - left around 3.30 for home as i had stuff to do here - fran went into school then - still hadn't come home by time i left for fireworks in the park. i always find the fireworks stressful - every year another reason!! - this year was no exception!! nice to see everyone though - and had nice chat in kitchen on our return which helped!! fran and alex home when i returned - tired!!
today: have been working almost all day on my music essay (sigh!!) - fran and alex went to the house and then on to school - it's just gone 8.00 now and they are only just leaving!! stella phoned not long ago re tomorrow (which i haven't written about so far but will update soon i hope)

Wednesday, November 01, 2006

barnaby bear (if you know what i mean)

the past few days have been busy . . .
monday ( flood in the office):
back to work after my hols. not an awful lot of work had been done while i was away due to the fact that the offices had been closed most of the week due to a mammoth flood which had occurred the week-end prior to my trip to cornwall. so it was all fairly hectic. much of the town hall decoration has been ruined, ceilings have come down, computer systems had been disabled - heaps of disruption in fact. it is all well under control now but there is still a lot of catching up to be done. VERY busy!!!
met pauline in the evening at the essex which was nice
tuesday (hallowe'en!!):
it's a sad fact but most people in england are very disapproving of trick-or-treating - and yes i know it is an idea imported by the colonials (lots of people say 'oh well it's an american thing' in a very dismisive way) and of course most of us still haven't forgiven them for the boston tea party (lol!!) but i think it is fun to dress up and call on the neighbours - when the girls were small we always made orange squash, mixed it with food colouring and served it to our visitors and called it stupid names like 'bat's blood' or 'spider juice' - it was just a bit of harmless fun. nowadays there seems to be far too much tsk-tsking going on!! kill joys!!!
wednesday (mass and grass):
all saints mass at school in morning - which was lovely although i found it more than a little emotional!! - cut the grass in the afternoon - i hope it will be the last time this year but as it is still quite mild and wet i suspect it will need at least one more - alex came home while i was mowing and not only finished it off but mended my lawn-mower as well - hoorah!!

Friday, October 27, 2006

kernow

well, i arrived home from my cornwall holiday about an hour ago - took almost 9 hours driving time as the roadwork delays were so bad - but well worth it for the fantastic time i had!!
tuesday: left just after 4 a.m. in pouring rain (which fortunately ceased around bristol) and arrived in time for morning coffee - yay!! - janey, eric, james, imy, david and i walked and peter, lorna, cat and freddie drove (boo!!) to the new inn for lunch. it was soo warm and sunny we were able to sit in the garden. rest of the day spent relaxing.
wednesday: we all went to st. ives. rotten weather - rained all day but still managed a good time. lunch in the 'onshore' - then back home for fish meal by cat and david. sadly i was so exhausted i had to go back to my b and b early and consequently missed it!
thursday: good weather today! janey, eric and i went to local farm shop and then on to helford for couple of drinks at the pub. back to tregartha and sat in garden until jude and john arrived when we walked over to nare point. good walk but VERY muddy and slippy. back for lovely lasagne meal and then: FIREWORKS!! in the garden. we all yelled 'ooh' and 'aah' and 'hoorah' and so did a motley collection of other people in the area who had obviously come out to watch them from their gardens. so lovely to see fireworks in a sky with so little light pollution!!
today: after i had tidied my little cabin i went to pay and return the key. chatted to john whale (the owner) who invited me to see his paintings and the book he is currently working on. so interesting - particularly as it is a subject i know absolutely nothing about - so now i do know a little more about ships in and around oman.
freddie: it was freddie's first (of many i bet!!) trip to cornwall. it was lovely to have him with us. he was very good - when he wasn't eating he was smiling, and when he wasn't doing either he was sleeping. it was lovely to see james and imy so obviously happy with their baby brother - and good to see the way they helped to care for him. they are a super family!!

Saturday, October 21, 2006

48 Things

It's been an interesting and varied week - so varied in fact that i can't coherently put it all on one blog . . . so, instead I give you:
48 Things You Could Care Less About. . .
1. FIRST NAME? Rosemary
2. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE? No
3. WHEN DID YOU LAST CRY? I cry so often I can't remember - over a fortnight ago though!
4. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING? Mostly
5. WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE LUNCHMEAT? Liver sausage - in a crusty roll
6. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU? Yes!
7. DO YOU HAVE A JOURNAL? Only my blog
8. DO YOU STILL HAVE YOUR TONSILS? Yes.
9. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP? Lord!! No!!!
10. WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE CEREAL? My mum's home made Bircher Muesli
11. DO YOU UNTIE YOUR SHOES WHEN YOU TAKE THEM OFF? Of course!!
12. DO YOU THINK YOU ARE STRONG? No. Though it is surprizing what one will do when one has one's 'back to the wall'
13. WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE ICE CREAM FLAVOR? Toffee
14. SHOE SIZE? 5/6 - it depends
5. RED OR PINK? Red
16. WHAT IS THE LEAST FAVOURITE THING ABOUT YOURSELF? I . . . er . . . umm . . . procrastinate
17. WHO DO YOU MISS THE MOST? Boogy
18. DO YOU WANT EVERYONE TO SEND THIS BACK TO YOU? I would like to know 48 things about You, too!
19. WHAT COLOUR PANTS, SHIRT AND SHOES ARE YOU WEARING? Blue jeans with a white polo-neck, blue ballet shoes and stripey socks
20. LAST THING YOU ATE? Hot cross bun
21. WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW? Computer humming
22. IF YOU WERE A CRAYON, WHAT COLOUR WOULD YOU BE? brown
23. FAVOURITE SMELL? Fresh cut grass
24. WHO WAS THE LAST PERSON YOU TALKED TO ON THE PHONE? Frankie
25. THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT PEOPLE YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO? Smile
26. DO YOU LIKE THE PERSON you stole THIS from? I pinched it from someone's blog - I have never met her but she seems really nice
27. FAVOURITE DRINK? Strong coffee
28. FAVOURITE SPORT? Sailing
29. EYE COLOUR? Brown
30. HAT SIZE? Same size as Einstein!! I discovered this when I measured up for my Tilley!!
31. DO YOU WEAR CONTACTS? No - I tried but failed!
32. FAVOURITE FOOD? Butterscotch Angel Delight - it's been my favourite for almost 40 years
33. SCARY MOVIES OR HAPPY ENDINGS? Happy endings
35. SUMMER OR WINTER? Winter
36. HUGS OR KISSES? Hugs
37. FAVOURITE DESSERT? Still Angel Delight!
38. WHO IS MOST LIKELY TO RESPOND? What?
39. LEAST LIKELY TO RESPOND? Evidently this started out as an email thing
40. WHAT BOOKS ARE YOU READING? Frenchman's Creek by Daphne DuMaurier (going to Gillan Creek next week) and Jane Eyre by Chrlotte Bronte (for my OU course)
41. WHAT'S ON YOUR MOUSE Pad? I don't have a mouse pad - they just get in the way
42. WHAT DID YOU WATCH LAST NIGHT ON TV? Nothing
43. FAVOURITE SOUNDS? 'Mummy'/'Avie'/'Avia'/'Stinker'
44. ROLLING STONES OR BEATLES? Beatles
45. THE FURTHEST YOU'VE BEEN FROM HOME? Caribbean
46. WHAT'S YOUR SPECIAL TALENT? Remaining modest
47. WHERE WERE YOU BORN? Watford, Hertfordshire, England
48. WHO SENT THIS TO YOU? oops! I pinched it from Marguerite!!


Saturday, October 14, 2006

the m1 car park

spent far too long this week on the m1!
last saturday: travelled up to shrewsbury for tony's 60th (60th!!) birthday party - which was great fun. we all had hot butternut squash soup while watching fireworks on the lawn and then congregated inside for buffet-style eats. it was lovely to see everyone again and to have a good look at david and becky's wedding and australia photos. drove back with danuta and were stuck for over 2 hours on the m1 around luton due to roadworks - drat!!
tuesday: early morning mass for boogs. frances and trish sent cards, stella phoned and frankie and alex came round for dinner and then stayed for the evening. 3 years and i still half expect to hear boogs' key in the door, to see him walking down the road or smell his baccy as i come back to the house.
wednesday: had verification frame-work training at work - very interesting and now, at last, i know what all the numbers on my driving licence mean!!
thursday: to luton for my first tutorial. it was a bit strained to begin with but i guess we shall soon get used to each other. the other people (8 of them plus tutor) seemed very pleasant and i did enjoy it and didn't find it as difficult to follow as i had feared. another traffic jam on the m1!!
today: going to lynn and mick's for the evening and, hopefully, calling in at the knit tin in olney on the way - i have no doubt there will be yet another jam on the m1!!

Thursday, October 05, 2006

i love weddings!

and what i really really love about them is how they are all so different and all so special in their own way
anna and ricky's wedding last saturday was no exception
it was a beautiful mass made even more beautiful, i thought, for the inclusion of 'i watch the sunrise'
the reception venue was super: converted stables surrounding a courtyard where the children could safely play, a wonderful meal (with sticky toffee pudding with butterscotch sauce - yumm!!), and as much coffee as you could drink - bliss!!
and the wedding party!!
anna looked stunning!! the most wonderful dress - i have never seen her look so lovely!
clare was as pretty as ever and the flower-girls, kezia and isabelle, as cute as could be
elizabeth was a truly elegant mother of the bride
the men were all dishy mcdish in their tails - barry gave a lovely 'father of the bride' speech and ricky and the best man were jolly good too
both stella and family and frankie and alex were guests and the other guests included heaps of my very good friends
it was a very special day!!
. . . but i wouldn't be a proper grandmother if i didn't just say how proud i was of kezia!! - she looked adorable and she behaved impeccably all day - every wedding needs a kezia!!

Tuesday, September 26, 2006

and i owe i owe i owe

yesterday someone at work remarked that it was exactly 3 months/13 weeks to christmas
yay!!! was my reaction
groan!! came from most of the others
followed by grumbles about the presents that 'have' to be bought. and then they went into 'moaning mode' with their lists of who has to be bought for!!! and how much they 'have' to spend on their children!!
is that all christmas is, then?
what about the good will to all men, the nativity, cards from friends and relatives, decorating the house and the tree, special food and drinks, wreaths on front doors, excited children, traditional carols and corny christmas songs, black and white films on tv, christmas parties, mistletoe and holly . . . anything i've forgotten?
oh yes!! presents are a part of it too - it's lovely to give and to receive and i'm sure i enjoy it as much as the next woman - but i don't like to think of people stressing as though presents are the most important part!

Friday, September 22, 2006

. . . and this is the answer . . .

oh well!! this is the answer:
a) there are just more in my house than anywhere else in the known universe
b) this is because i leave the windows open (but it's hot!!)
c) and the light on (but it's dark!)
d) and i haven't used a spray to kill them
e) nor have i swatted them
f) tully hasn't killed them either
g) it has been raining and they have all come inside
h) i am obviously not taking enough care
thanks frankie!! so now i know!!
any other ideas, anyone??

Monday, September 18, 2006

a plague!

For 2 summers we lived in a house miles from anywhere in the middle of fields in rural Lincolnshire and I remember that in the Septembers of both years I noticed huge numbers of daddy-long-legs. I assumed these 'swarms' arrived because there were fields and fields of crops all around us (unlike now when i live more or less in the middle of a housing estate). But it was never something that bothered me.
Well it bothers me now!! Last evening I was sitting reading at the dining room table and there seemed to be hundreds of them flying around! (It was only dozens really!!) But they really were a darned nuisance - buzzing and flapping and getting in my hair and dive-bombing my hands and shedding their legs (!!) and getting trapped in my book and flitting past my face and fluttering around the lamp - I almost began to wish Tully would come and 'seek and destroy'.
So what I would like to know is: has anyone else noticed that there are more around this year or am I only imagining it? and is there a point to their existence?

Friday, September 15, 2006

sociable!!

last few evenings have been good:
tuesday: trisha came round for coffee and chat
wednesday: reading group at nicky's - 'destiny' by tim parks - i'm still struggling with it!!
thursday: to london with the unison trip for 'the producers' - it was ok - i didn't really enjoy it as much as everyone else did - elaine took sue van d for a 'birthday treat' - so had my pre-theatre sarnie and coffee with them and caught up on the news - home very late
today: it's been so busy that i haven't really looked properly at my mail - and there's LOADS of it!! - that's what i shall be doing this evening!

Monday, September 11, 2006

'how wonderful it is to do nothing and afterwards to take one's rest'

is how i feel about last week-end!
i went camping with eric, janey, cat, david, james, imy and freddie at aston cantlow . . . and we did NOTHING!! it was WONDERFUL!! barbecue friday night, leisurely breakfast sat morning followed by a 'hike' to the pub (about 10 mins), pub lunch and then back to the tents for doze/chat/reading the newspapers, another barbie on sat evening while we listened to last night of the proms, lazy breakfast sun morning, pack up and set off for home by early afternoon. it was a hugely enjoyable week-end
sadly, today has been Stressful with a decidedly capital S! and i don't even want to think about it!! going for a relaxing bath now methinks!

Sunday, August 20, 2006

it's been a fairly memorable few weeks

and that's about all i want to say on the subject right now!!

Wednesday, August 02, 2006

lest i forget . . .

a quick update of the last couple of weeks:
week-end of 22/23 july:
fran and alex came to stay friday night, as did stella, rich and the pies - fran and alex decided to sleep in the garden but had to scuttle indoors when the heavens opened for the first time in yonks
stella, clara and i visited cat and freddie on friday evening and everyone seemed to get at least one visit in over the w/end
eric and janey were also down - planned in any case because of the battle proms - but mainly to see their first grand-pie
battle proms were very exciting with all the cannon, fireworks and horsemanship displays - but the best was the traditional bits with the flag-waving at the end - and the lovely company of course: john and denny, sheila, dave and jane, john and jude and e, j and me
week-end of 29/30 july:
david and becky's wedding on the sunday at hoole hall was very enjoyable - the wedding party looked wonderful - loved the colours!! - and it was good to meet with friends for a chat - all of us 'oldies' sat in the reception area well away from the disco and caught up on our news
i stayed in a marvellous b and b - lucky choice as it was only one i had found on the internet - but i thought it the nicest place i have ever stayed - greenlooms cottage about 6 miles from chester gets my vote for b and b of the decade!!