what have i been doing?

Fretting about 0 mainly!

Though happily she is very much better. She came out of hospital last Friday which was quite remarkable and is very nearly back to her old self!! I went up to stay on Friday, coming home late Sat night and then visited again on Wednesday with Lucia. We all had a lovely day. Fran, Alex and Lucia visited on Saturday too and Eric nipped in to be there when the Speech Therapist came on Friday last. O's recovery has been quite amazing - she really is very 'tough' for her age!!

Had a lovely day yesterday: Fran, Lucia and I went to look at some houses (Alex was working) and Fran even found one she liked!! Wow!! I think they will take it as they went again today and Alex likes it too. This is a good thing as it is much nicer than the one they live in now, but sadly about half an hour's drive away - I shall miss being able to nip round on my way home from work. We arrived back to my house and had something to eat and then did some weddingy type things. Only just under 9 weeks to go!! Crikey!!!!!!!

Today was beautiful - sunny and quite warm. I did a few hours gardening (exhauting!!) and then a little knitting on Kezia's ballet cardi. Met Frankie, Alex and Lucia for evening mass - Lucia was sooo good - chattering away and smiling at all the people!! I shall miss seeing them at mass too - oh dear!!

the good, the bad and the ugly

the good:

o is much better - recognising g, Stella and me when we visited yesterday

Eric visited today and reports that she may be going home tomorrow

the bad:

Stella had a bad journey home

the ugly (in spirit):

1. lorry drivers who pull out, crash into cars and then continue their journey without even bothering to stop - the particular one I have in mind had a blue lorry which was left hand drive and with non-British licence plates

2. all other drivers who drive on without stopping to help

b*****ds!!!

more news of o

Eric and G have visited twice and each time O has been more like her old self. She has been moved from the Emergency Assessment Unit to the Stroke Ward - which must be a good thing?

Tomorrow I am meeting Stella at O and G's house and then all going on to visit. We are taking a neighbour, June, who has been very kind and helpful. People are been very kind in general; I wish G would take more advantage of their offers of help!!

I am looking forward to seeing O and hopefully finding out a little more from the doctors.

Then we shall all have to think very hard about what is best to do for them.

news of o

Whizzed up to Yorkshire on Friday evening after work to stay with Stella Rich and Pies for the week-end.

Was having a lovely time with them but left earlier than planned as Eric phoned to say that O had been admitted to hospital on Saturday with a suspected stroke.

G went in to the hospital with her and Eric visited in the afternoon in order to find out from the staff as much as he could.

I was able to visit today along with G, E and Janey. We are not sure when she will be allowed home - hope it will be very soon as she does so hate inactivity. The good news is that she is very much better today than she was yesterday. I will try to update tomorrow.

not a lot has been happening . . .

. . . although now i think of it . . . i have been very busy!!

though sadly little of it is stuff which would make interesting reading!!

i have had lucia one day a week since frankie went back to school - so 4 days so far! she has been very good though i am amazed at how much time she takes up!! can't imagine how i ever managed to get anything done when stella and frankie were little!! - it's been a lot of fun though! she almost managed to crawl last wednesday . . . and i saw her today and now she can!!

stella rich and the pies came down last week for fiona's wedding on the friday. i saw the photos on stella's camera and it looked beautiful. we all went for a walk on saturday afternoon along the path at the back of the houses on park avenue and then along the side of the golf course. boogs and i would often walk there on summer evenings - which was obviously a far better time of day!! - we were not exactly flavour of the month with the golfers and had to beat a hasty retreat!!

i have joined facebook properly at last and am just about getting the hang of it - you can tell i am not exactly a computer buff . . . this afternoon i was doing my latest assignment and had to phone stella to ask what the I in IT stood for!! ho hum!!

and now i am packing up for the night, going downstairs to watch the end of a video about antony gormley and so to bed

my conservatory . . .

after months and months . . . nay, years and years and YEARS . . . i have finally made a start on getting the conservatory built

justin and alex are doing the technical bits and patrick is doing the labouring

here is what it looked like last wednesday morning before commencement:

taken from the inside:

and outside
and here is how it looked when i arrived home from work today:

insider's view: and outside:

and here below are the orrelly men last friday lunchtime

justin, patrick, paul and alex

. . . and a p.s.: i arrived home one evening to find catpaw indentations on the concrete for the footings! needless to say i'm sure this was NOT tully!! (lol)

the last kerniggit

our annual camping week-end at aston cantlow . . . marvellous!!

here's what we did: talked, laughed, read, ate, drank, walked to the king's head, listened to last night of the proms, slept! - that was it really - but a fantastic time in fantastic company!!

we were (in order of arrival): janey, eric, moi, cat, david, james, imy, freddie, lizzie, matt, stella, rich, kezia, jago, clara and clare-and-niall (who cycled from their home to join us for lunch at the king's head)

i missed frankie, alex and lucia . . . but maybe next year???

. . . and i missed boogs - today is the 35th anniversary of our wedding day

you can do this too . . .

I confess . . .
I pinched this from another (random) blog . . .

Look at the list of books below.
Bold the ones you’ve read.
Italicise the ones you want to read.
Leave blank the ones that you aren’t interested in.

Movies don’t count!!!!!

1. The Da Vinci Code (Dan Brown)
2. Angels and Demons (Dan Brown)
3. Pride and Prejudice (Jane Austen)
4. To Kill A Mockingbird (Harper Lee)
5. Gone With The Wind (Margaret Mitchell)
6. The Lord of the Rings: Return of the King (Tolkien)
7. The Lord of the Rings: Fellowship of the Ring (Tolkien)
8. The Lord of the Rings: Two Towers (Tolkien)
9. Anne of Green Gables (L.M. Montgomery)
10. Outlander (Diana Gabaldon)
11. A Fine Balance (Rohinton Mistry)
12. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire (Rowling)
13. Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix (Rowling)
14. A Prayer for Owen Meany (John Irving)
15. Memoirs of a Geisha (Arthur Golden)
16. Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone (Rowling)
17. Fall on Your Knees (Ann-Marie MacDonald)
18. The Stand (Stephen King)
19. Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban(Rowling)
20. Jane Eyre (Charlotte Bronte)
21. The Hobbit (Tolkien)
22. The Catcher in the Rye (J.D. Salinger)
23. Little Women (Louisa May Alcott)
24. The Lovely Bones (Alice Sebold)
25 . Life of Pi (Yann Martel)
26. The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy (Douglas Adams)
27. Wuthering Heights (Emily Bronte)
28. The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe (C. S. Lewis)
29. East of Eden (John Steinbeck)
30. Tuesdays with Morrie (Mitch Albom)
31. Dune (Frank Herbert)
32. The Notebook (Nicholas Sparks)
33. Atlas Shrugged (Ayn Rand)
34. 1984 (Orwell)
35. The Mists of Avalon (Marion Zimmer Bradley)
36. The Pillars of the Earth (Ken Follett)
37. The Power of One (Bryce Courtenay)
38. I Know This Much is True (Wally Lamb)
39. The Red Tent (Anita Diamant)
40. The Alchemist (Paulo Coelho)
41. The Clan of the Cave Bear (Jean M. Auel)
42. The Kite Runner (Khaled Hosseini)
43. Confessions of a Shopaholic (Sophie Kinsella)
44. The Five People You Meet In Heaven (Mitch Albom)
45. Bible
46. Anna Karenina (Tolstoy)
47. The Count of Monte Cristo (Alexandre Dumas)
48. Angela’s Ashes (Frank McCourt)
49. The Grapes of Wrath (John Steinbeck)
50. She’s Come Undone (Wally Lamb)
51. The Poisonwood Bible (Barbara Kingsolver)
52. A Tale of Two Cities (Dickens)
53. Ender’s Game (Orson Scott Card)
54. Great Expectations (Dickens)
55. The Great Gatsby (Fitzgerald)
56. The Stone Angel (Margaret Laurence)
57. Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets (Rowling)
58. The Thorn Birds (Colleen McCullough)
59. The Handmaid’s Tale (Margaret Atwood)
60. The Time Traveller’s Wife (Audrey Niffenegger)
61. Crime and Punishment (Fyodor Dostoyevsky)
62. The Fountainhead (Ayn Rand)
63. War and Peace (Tolstoy)
64. Interview With The Vampire (Anne Rice)
65. Fifth Business (Robertson Davis)
66. One Hundred Years Of Solitude (Gabriel Garcia Marquez)
67. The Sisterhood of the Travelling Pants (Ann Brashares)
68. Catch-22 (Joseph Heller)
69. Les Miserables (Hugo)
70. The Little Prince (Antoine de Saint-Exupery)
71. Bridget Jones’ Diary (Fielding)
72. Love in the Time of Cholera (Marquez)
73. Shogun (James Clavell)
74. The English Patient (Michael Ondaatje)
75. The Secret Garden (Frances Hodgson Burnett)
76. The Summer Tree (Guy Gavriel Kay)
77. A Tree Grows in Brooklyn (Betty Smith)
78. The World According To Garp (John Irving)
79. The Diviners (Margaret Laurence)
80. Charlotte’s Web (E.B. White)
81. Not Wanted On The Voyage (Timothy Findley)
82. Of Mice And Men (Steinbeck)
83. Rebecca (Daphne DuMaurier)
84. Wizard’s First Rule (Terry Goodkind)
85. Emma (Jane Austen)
86. Watership Down(Richard Adams)
87. Brave New World (Aldous Huxley)
88. The Stone Diaries (Carol Shields)
89. Blindness (Jose Saramago)
90. Kane and Abel (Jeffrey Archer)
91. In The Skin Of A Lion (Ondaatje)
92. Lord of the Flies (Golding)
93. The Good Earth (Pearl S. Buck)
94. The Secret Life of Bees (Sue Monk Kidd)
95. The Bourne Identity (Robert Ludlum)
96. The Outsiders (S.E. Hinton)
97. White Oleander (Janet Fitch)
98. A Woman of Substance (Barbara Taylor Bradford)
99. The Celestine Prophecy (James Redfield)
100. Ulysses (James Joyce)

the roly hoods . . . and parish camp

this weekend has been 'parish camp' . . . sunny . . . and funny . . . lots of nice people, lots of laughs . . . and exhausting in an enjoyable kind of way
i didn't camp (went home to sleep every night!!) and i can't remember where my inflatable mattress or pump are even if i had wanted to stay - and i didn't remember my camera so sadly no photos
but . . .
not one
not two
not three
but FOUR of my favourite bloggers came too (you know who I mean, ladies!!)
so hopefully there will be good pics on other blogs
and now I am off to enjoy my 'campering pampering pack'
thank you all xxxxx

back from hols . . .

. . . and had a wonderful time . . .

i went to northumberland and stayed on a farm

i did things i have wanted to do for ages . . .

i went to housteads roman fort and to the national park and to the roman army museum

and i went to barter books in alnwick and walked by the sea from craster to dunstanburgh castle and back again breathing in the good sea air

and i went to corbridge and did some christmas shopping

and i did lots of walking and reading and relaxing

and then i went and stayed for one night with stella rich and the pies (which was a holiday in itself!!) and we went out for a lovely meal at the meadows

and then i stayed for 2 nights with janey and eric. lizzie and matt were there too . . . on friday night we all went to see romeo and juliet at calke performed by the lord chamberlain's men and then on the saturday janey eric and i went to packwood house and in the evening janey cooked coq au vin and we all sat around for ages talking and laughing (and drinking wine)

and then i came home . . . and tully was very pleased to see me!

and now i am mainly back at work but . . . tomorrow i will be looking after lucia as a 'practice run' for when frankie goes back to school in 2 weeks time . . . and that will be nice

Last Saturday: I collected O and G and whizzed up to Yorkshire to visit Stella, Rich and the pies in their lovely new home. As soon as we arrived on their driveway, Kezia, Jago and Clara popped out to welcome us and show us around - they were very excited. The house is really beautiful - especially Kezia's bedroom which has: a new pink appliqued quilt cover, spangly new pink lampshade and which she assured us will be painted pink and have pink curtains!! Jago's new quilt was midnight blue with appliqued rocket, moon and stars. The rest of the house is just as lovely - I like the kitchen best!! Lizzie and Matt came over too and we had a great day.

Jago, G and Rich in the Sitting Room:

Lizzie and Matt:

Clara and O:

Two Pies (in what I suspect will become 'The Stage!!):

Stella in her lovely Kitchen:

Sunday: I spent working on my assignment.

Monday: I met Pauline in the Essex.

Thursday: Frankie and Lucia came round in the evening (Alex had rugby practice) and we looked at more weddingy-type things and F more or less decided what music she will have - it still seems ages away but I suspect it will be here before we know it - and I have quite a bit of weight to lose if I'm going to fit into my suit!! (ARRRRRGGGGHHH!!)

I'm off on my hols tomorrow - Frankie is on Tully Duty - back soon!!

2 nice things

1) result

yay!!

i passed my course!!

well done me!!

i have worked really hard and it has not come easily so i am very happy

i am currently doing another course - but only a little one (10 points) and have still not decided whether i shall carry on to degree level - oh well - only another 300 points to go!!!!!

2) dishwasher

frankie alex and lucia were here when i arrrived home from work. alex didn't tell me but he had put the front on my dishwasher so it matches the rest of the kitchen. it took me almost 2 hours to notice after they left - despite standing right next to it while i made a cup of tea!!

it is a great improvement - hoorah!!

a secret that can now be told!

my exciting event was a trip to ireland (sligo and county mayo to be exact) for my friend odilon's surprise (!!!) 50th birthday party

jackie, celia and i flew out from luton on friday morning during a torrential rainstorm, landing in knock to blue skies and brilliant sunshine. we stayed in westport in a wonderful hotel (the party was also held there). jackie had hired a car and we drove out to sligo and 'did' yeats country! we went to drumcliffe - here i am by yeats' grave :

we also went to lissadell and walked on the beach - it is sooo beautiful!! - there's celia in the distance paddling:

and celia and jackie sunning themselves on a bench overlooking the sea:

the party was tremendous!! odi was totally surprised!! - she said she 'knew something was going on' but had no idea what it was. brian had done an amazing job getting everyone together in such a short space of time (i only knew about it 10 days beforehand) and the atmosphere at the party was fantastic!! lots of people had managed to get there including some, like me, who had never visited ireland before. i didn't manage to get any photos of the party - well i did keep snapping but only seemed to get a lot of backs and arms!! - but here is odi just as she came into the dining room - she was saying 'What!! is going on??':

the party went on into the small hours - and odi and brian still got up to have breakfast with us before we left on our morning flight

. . . and ireland is wonderful - i will be back!!

back in blighty by early afternoon and just missed eric and janey who had come to collect o and g and take them home. i have spoken to them most days and saw them last weekend and they are both very much better though we still have our thinking caps very much in position in order to come to a sensible arrangement for them for their future

last week was mainly rather ordinary - i had offered to go up and help stella and rich to move house (which was partly why i had thought i would be extra busy) - but they managed fine just the 2 of them and both they and the pies are settling in and enjoying their new home

friday was my birthday - i took the day off work and had a lovely time. odi phoned in the morning and we had a long chat (this was her birthday too) - she was still overwhelmed by the party and all the guests!! and then frankie arrived with this beautiful bunch of flowers:

jackie had invited me round in the evening (i thought it was just a cup of tea - but it was a lovely meal with lots of nice people - yay!!) we were: jackie, pete, christine, jimmy, doireann, liam, barry, elizabeth, mary, kevin, ruth, brian, janet and moi - what a brilliant way to round off my birthday!!

sunday was lucia's baptism

lucia was a little angel and she looked beautiful in the gown - it has been worn so far by stella, (for whom o made it) frankie, clara and now lucia. o, malcom and collette were godparents and after the service we all came back here and had 'afternoon tea' in the garden. it was a lovely sunny day - after weeks of rain - and a good time was had by all

. . . and my ps: amidst all the excitement, harry potter no. 7 came out - stella, rich and the pies kindly included it in my birthday presents!! hoorah!! - and my flight to ireland was a kind present from jackie!! i think i should be 57 every year!!

speedy posting

i should really be trying to sleep but here's a quick update
a good couple of days:

o and g going from strength to strength and we have been discussing their future to good effect (i think) - we visited with frankie and lucia yesterday afternoon which was lovely

today very busy:

text from stella just as i was driving to work to say she and rich had arrived back in watford (they had gone up to yorkshire to move house) so called in very briefly at jackie's and saw them and pies (who had been staying with j during the move)

o and g had lots of visitors today: frankie and lucia and then alex came to collect them both after work, stella rich and the pies, and then cat david and freddie popped round this evening. it has been good having them to stay and they have really enjoyed being here. i was going to say that they had enjoyed the rest but actually g painted my back fence today! despite that he looks 10 years younger than he did when he arrived!

this post is very quickly typed and probably doesnt make a lot of sense - and i shall probably re-write it some day soon . . . but in the meanwhile i will just say (for those of you who are 'in-the-know'):

wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

good day for o and g

o and g have had a reet good day:

i came home during my lunch break to wait for dr glover to visit. she gave o the once over, gave some jolly good advice and prescribed some new meds. o now seems very much better, heaps and heaps more cheerful and is certainly moving more easily

g spent the morning quietly but then had the urge to do 'summat' - despite my plea for him to do no more than one hour's work, after lunch, he: unblocked my drain, superglued my drainpipe, cut the hedge, weeded the path and 'scrubbed up'. he assures me it took 'only just over an hour'! i have to admit, however, that he seems very happy and looks a darned sight more cheerful and well than he did when he arrived here yesterday!!

pleasant and relaxing evening and so to bed!

an eventful week-end

it has been so busy i have hardly looked at the puta all week-end and now it really time for bed - so just a quick up-date:

friday:

managed to get out fairly early to complete the abandonned shopping trip of thurs night/frid morning. stella rich and the pies arrived around 12.30 and we had lunch, sat around a bit and then stella and kezia went to aalia's for the henna hand painting and rich jago and clara went to jackie's. not much else happened

saturday: jago's third birthday

the pies always get to choose their birthday breakfast so we had what our family call 'hot cree bees' which was great fun and very nice and tasty.

in the afternoon, jago had his party here in the garden with his 2 sisters and all his cousins (james, imy, freddie and lucia). various other of the family came as well and stella organised songs and games in the 'circle', a treasure hunt, pass the parcel and a miffy story.

when the guests had left stella, rich and pies changed into their smart togs and drove up to london to aalia's wedding. so i had a quiet evening tidying up mainly

today:

stella and company called in on o and g unexpectedly on their way down on friday. to cut a (very) long story short it was felt by all of us that it would be best if they came to stay with me for a week. i drove up to get them this afternoon and now they are safely installed - and have already had visitors: eric and janey called for a cup of tea before driving back up to ashby and frankie, alex and lucia came by after mass for another cup of tea. hopefully o and g will finish the week rested and refreshed!!

and finally:

this has been a busy week-end - but my exciting event has not happened yet!!

"to be continued in our next"

a day for laughing . . . or not!!

laughing at work:

everyone seemed very humourous at work today - so fortunately the time passed quite quickly

laughing at frankie's:

frankie phoned in the evening and asked me to go round and write out the invitations for lucia's baptism - saying my writing is 'neater'!! - it isn't but i had a pleasant couple of hours - lucia was just laughing and laughing and laughing!! - she is a happy little soul

not laughing at tesco's:

decided to do the shopping at half past eleven as it is very quiet then - but hadn't been there long and i managed to convince myself that i had left a saucepan on the hob with 2 eggs in it - and hadn't turned the gas off - dashed home with hardly any shopping done - only to find that i had turned the gas off after all - oh dear!! - another supermarket dash tomorrow to purchase all the stuff i didn't get - grr!!

conferring, convalescent, conservatories and conversation

conferring:

7.10 a.m.: stella called and we talked for almost an hour (!!) - mainly organising for events in the next 20 or so days - who is doing what when etc

convalescent:

9.00 a.m.: frankie and lucia arrived and we drove up to visit o and g - poor o is having such a hard time with her hip - she cracked it almost 5 weeks ago now and is very cross indeed that it hasn't healed yet (!!) - she cheered up when she saw lucia and we had a lovely time with them. took g to the hospital for his appointment and then we drove home

conservatories:

6.00 p.m.: alex took me to see a conservatory that he and justin had built - am hoping they will build something similar for me fairly soon - would like it in place before the wedding

converstation:

8.00 p.m.: book club at alison's - this month it was 'house of orphans' by helen dunmore - still have about 20% to go on this one - little time lately - pleasant evening though sadly only jan, tassa, anne and i managed to get there

hectic!!

the next few weeks will be:
exciting!
manic!!
busy!!!
and
decidedly lacking in peace and quiet
and i can hardly wait!!
and having (hopefully!) whetted your appetite . . . i shall leave you guessing
. . . but i'll keep you posted!!

i say! look at this!!

well i pinched this off patti's lovely blog (hope that's ok, patti?) and it's very easy to do
if you would like to try it . . . you go to www.metaatem.net/words . . . and even I could do it!!